Cyber Crime Law

The Cyber Crime Law affects us bloggers in a very big way. Come on, I blog to express myself and now I have somebody telling me what I should write and not write about? That just plain stupid. What if I was a movie reviewer and I say something like, Don't watch this movie, it sucks. I can get sued and go to jail for up to twelve years? Why can it be as simple as, if you don't like my blog then don't read it. I really feel that this cyber crime law should be stopped. But on the other hand, why can't we all just not write bad shit and try to make the world a better place? You know what they say, If you have nothing good to say, don't say anything  at all. 

First World Problems

So I came across this quote and it said, “Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.” This quote could mean different things to different people. Sure you have cancer, and you have 3 months to live but look at it this way, that's more than what some have in a life time. haha! But seriously, a lot of us have those "First World Problems" like I'm so sad, i left my phone charger downstairs or why does Apple have to come out with a new Iphone every year? Now I gotta go and buy another one. We focus too much on our petty problems that we forget about everything else in life that is going good for  us. 

What if

What would I do if I learned that you only had 24 hours to live? The first thing I would do is not stress about it. I know its coming anyway so why waste my remaining hours crying over it. After that I would surround myself with the people who matter, my family and friends. I guess that's the only thing I would do. Just be with the ones I love and hangout. Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what I did or what I didn't do , what matters is that I got to share the time I have left with the ones that I love. 

Once a cheetah, always a cheetah.

I really hate the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I mean come on. People make mistakes, but that doesn't mean that they couldn't change. Sure there are people who always cheat and stuff, but everybody deserve's a second chance. Everybody can change. Its just not as easy for some. If you ask me, I really that you just have to find the right person, the person who will make you 100% happy. The problem with a lot of people is that they tend to settle. And when they settle, it is so easy for them to find somebody else. That's when some cheat. I really don't agree with the saying, once a cheater always a cheater. 

Haters Gonna Hate

Fact: Haters don't really hate you. In fact, they hate themselves because your a reflection of what they wish to be. 

It seems that no matter what we do, there are always gonna be people jealous of us. It could be because of the material things we have, our looks, talents,  whatever. Some people are so insecure that they feel the need to point out bad things about you just so that others wouldn't look at the good things. It's true if you think about it. Lets say theres this guy driving a really nice car, while driving he sees another guy with a nice car too. He's not gonna say shit about the other car because he too drives one. Now you have these guys driving their old ass cars thats about to break apart any second saying shit about the guy driving the nice car. Why? Because they hate the fact that somebody else is more blessed than they are. And they say shit like oh he's ugly anyway or maybe it's not even his car.

Thats the problem with our society today, we're never content with what we have. Instead of counting all the blessings we have, we count the things we don't have. We also have to stop judging people based on what they have or do not have. Just because somebody is more blessed than you doesn't make him a bad person. It doesn't also mean that he's arrogant and like to show off. People just get so jealous that they think that people with nice stuff are show offs. Somebody once said that most haters are stuck in a poisonous mental prison of jealousy and self-doubt that blinds them to their own potentiality. Why focus on other people's success when you can focus on yourself and who knows maybe once day you could also reach that success.

So the next time you say shit about somebody, I want you to ask yourself. Why do I really hate this person? 

Be yourself.

A wise man once said, Be yourself. No one can ever tell you, you're doing it wrong. I talked about this before in my main blog. Everyday we wear these so called masks because we a so afraid to be ourselves, not knowing that being ourselves is what makes us unique and different from everyone else. We stress too much on what other people think of us that we're not even comfortable to be ourselves anymore. It's stupid actually because at the end of the day, those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter. 

It's true, nobody should tell you how live your life but yourself. You can be nice or you can be a jerk but at least you chose to be that way, you're not being that way just to fit in. You shouldn't also be afraid to be yourself in front of your friends because if they are really your friends, they will accept you for who you really are. And hey if ever you lose friends, it won't matter because losing fake friends isn't much of a loss anyway. It's better to  have a few real friends than a lot of fake friends. 

It's never too late to change and be yourself. Peace out.

Good Girls, Bad Girls.

As I was surfing the net, I came across this quote that said, Good girls go straight to heaven. Bad girls go everywhere. And it made me remember how a lot of my female friends would ask me if guys like bad girls, or if they think that those girls who post pictures of themselves  in their underwear on Facebook are hot. And I'm like hell yeah! LOL! But seriously, of course not. What a lot of girls don't really get is that it is really a turn off to us guys. Ok sure, they're attractive and all, I'm not gonna lie. But no guy wants to end up with that kind of girl, that kind of girl who sleeps around, posts naughty pictures online etc.  

        Guys like nice girls who don't have to try so hard to be pretty with a lot of make up and slutty clothes. It might be a surprise to girls but its true. I really believe that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you don't have to try so hard and be somebody you're not. I'm not saying that you shouldn't make yourself pretty or its wrong to enjoy makeup and dress nice. Girls enjoy that and I get that. What I'm trying to say is that there is a fine line between looking nice and trying too hard. You all know what I'm talking about. Sure guys notice the bad girls right away, but in the end they always fall for the good ones.

           

I really hope that a lot of you girls get what I'm trying to say.