Haters Gonna Hate

Fact: Haters don't really hate you. In fact, they hate themselves because your a reflection of what they wish to be. 

It seems that no matter what we do, there are always gonna be people jealous of us. It could be because of the material things we have, our looks, talents,  whatever. Some people are so insecure that they feel the need to point out bad things about you just so that others wouldn't look at the good things. It's true if you think about it. Lets say theres this guy driving a really nice car, while driving he sees another guy with a nice car too. He's not gonna say shit about the other car because he too drives one. Now you have these guys driving their old ass cars thats about to break apart any second saying shit about the guy driving the nice car. Why? Because they hate the fact that somebody else is more blessed than they are. And they say shit like oh he's ugly anyway or maybe it's not even his car.

Thats the problem with our society today, we're never content with what we have. Instead of counting all the blessings we have, we count the things we don't have. We also have to stop judging people based on what they have or do not have. Just because somebody is more blessed than you doesn't make him a bad person. It doesn't also mean that he's arrogant and like to show off. People just get so jealous that they think that people with nice stuff are show offs. Somebody once said that most haters are stuck in a poisonous mental prison of jealousy and self-doubt that blinds them to their own potentiality. Why focus on other people's success when you can focus on yourself and who knows maybe once day you could also reach that success.

So the next time you say shit about somebody, I want you to ask yourself. Why do I really hate this person? 

Be yourself.

A wise man once said, Be yourself. No one can ever tell you, you're doing it wrong. I talked about this before in my main blog. Everyday we wear these so called masks because we a so afraid to be ourselves, not knowing that being ourselves is what makes us unique and different from everyone else. We stress too much on what other people think of us that we're not even comfortable to be ourselves anymore. It's stupid actually because at the end of the day, those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter. 

It's true, nobody should tell you how live your life but yourself. You can be nice or you can be a jerk but at least you chose to be that way, you're not being that way just to fit in. You shouldn't also be afraid to be yourself in front of your friends because if they are really your friends, they will accept you for who you really are. And hey if ever you lose friends, it won't matter because losing fake friends isn't much of a loss anyway. It's better to  have a few real friends than a lot of fake friends. 

It's never too late to change and be yourself. Peace out.

Good Girls, Bad Girls.

As I was surfing the net, I came across this quote that said, Good girls go straight to heaven. Bad girls go everywhere. And it made me remember how a lot of my female friends would ask me if guys like bad girls, or if they think that those girls who post pictures of themselves  in their underwear on Facebook are hot. And I'm like hell yeah! LOL! But seriously, of course not. What a lot of girls don't really get is that it is really a turn off to us guys. Ok sure, they're attractive and all, I'm not gonna lie. But no guy wants to end up with that kind of girl, that kind of girl who sleeps around, posts naughty pictures online etc.  

        Guys like nice girls who don't have to try so hard to be pretty with a lot of make up and slutty clothes. It might be a surprise to girls but its true. I really believe that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you don't have to try so hard and be somebody you're not. I'm not saying that you shouldn't make yourself pretty or its wrong to enjoy makeup and dress nice. Girls enjoy that and I get that. What I'm trying to say is that there is a fine line between looking nice and trying too hard. You all know what I'm talking about. Sure guys notice the bad girls right away, but in the end they always fall for the good ones.

           

I really hope that a lot of you girls get what I'm trying to say.

He who angers you, controls you.

A wise man once said, He who angers you, controls you. Think about it. It's true right? Don't you just hate it when you're driving and some jerk cuts you off? And you get all mad and stuff cus there's nothing you can do about it because you're with your mom, your sister or maybe your girlfriend. Now your day is ruined. Its funny how something that little could change your mood and ruin your day. That happens to me all the time actually. I really hate it when that happens. 

I know its hard but sometimes you really just gotta to let it go. Nothings gonna happen to the jerk who cut you off if  you  get mad or not. So why let him ruin your day? Why let him control you? Im not just talking about idiots on the road. Im also talking about those haters that we love so much. Remember, no matter what there are always going to be people who don't like you. You can't please everybody. So what if they talk smack behind your back or even to your face? If you get angry, they win. But if you just let it go and be the bigger man, chances are they're just going to find somebody else to annoy. 

I know I say this almost every time I blog but life is short. So why let somebody else ruin your day when you can just let it go and carry on? I know it's easier said than done. The next time you get into a situation where somebody pisses you off, just remember the saying, He who angers you. controls you. You can't avoid these things from happening but you can control the way you react to the situation. 

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It's never too late to turn things around.

Quote of the day: Every passing minute is another chance to turn it around. - Vanilla Sky

Why is it that every time something bad happens, we just give up and start thinking that there is nothing we could do to turn it around? No matter how bad things get, you could always turn it around if you really wanted to. Why are we so scared to face our problems, accept the consequences and try to make things better? Sure there are some situationsin where in once the damage has been done, it's hard to fix. But that doesn't mean you can't try. 

What a lot of people don't get is that, we all do bad things, but that doesn't make us bad people. Sure I killed my wife and buried her in our basement because she was talking to another guy. But that doesn't make me a bad person. LOL! But seriously,  If you really wanted to turn things around, you could. Maybe you lost somebody's trust, or maybe you're not doing well in school or at your job. Every passing minute is another chance to turn things around.

Instead of worrying about all the bad things that have happened and how screwed up things got, why not get up and do something about it? You can hide from your problems all you want or you can be a grown up accept your fault, apologize and move on. I know I keep saying this but life it too short, so why live it with pain and hatred in your heart. It's never too late to turn things around.

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Listen.

Quote of the day : A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him. - Brendan Francis

Not a lot of people know that us guys are just as sensitive as girls. You can deny it all you want but deep down inside, you know its true. We also appreciate the little things like having somebody who listens to you. Im not talking about those situations when you tell a girl  to go and make you a sandwich and then she listens to you and does it, I'm talking about when a girl takes the time to ask you how your day was, a girl who listens to what you have to say, a girl who is as concerned for you as you are for her. Its really hard to find a girl like that nowadays. It really feels good to know that somebody out there cares. 

When I have a problem, I don't really need your advice or need you to say things that will make me feel better. Or maybe need you to fix it on the spot. I just need somebody there to listen to what I have to say. Sometimes its even better if you don't say anything at all, just listen. It really helps a lot when you know that you're not alone. And that somebody isn't going to judge you or make you feel even worse. Its nice to to have somebody you can be comfortable around and not be afraid to be yourself because everyday we wear these masks, these masks that make us look better in the eyes of others and it gets tiring sometimes. 

So ladies if you like it when guys listen to you and all your problems maybe, just maybe you otta go and ask them how they are and listen to them because if you like that sh t, we love that sh t. Peace Out.

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Life, it goes on.

Hi, I'm Nick. You may know me from my blog site nickieplease.blogspot.com. I made this blog for my Web Design class. Everyday for three weeks, I'm going to blog about quotes that I read. I really hope you guys like it. And if you havent already, please check out my main blog nickieplease.blogspot.com

Quote of the day : In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.
-Robert Frost

We all go through these things in life that affects us so badly that sometimes it seems so hard to move on and live life. It could be a bad break up, death of a loved one, maybe an accident that puts you in a wheel chair or whatever. And when these things happen, it seems so hard to live the way you used to. Lets say you've been in a relationship for more than a year, and for some reason you break up. You got so used to being with somebody that you don't even remember being single.

I think its safe to say that a lot of us are afraid of change. Who isn't? That's why a lot of people get back together after breaking up. Which is a bad idea because most of the time they end up breaking up again. Instead of staying in bed, crying all day and listening to sappy love songs, why not go out, live life, meet new people, experience new things. I broke up with my girlfriend boo hoo. Life goes on.

I really believe in the saying, What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. We should learn from all our mistakes and heart breaks and try not to let it happen in the future. Isn't that what life is really about? Life is too short to dwell on the past and sit around and mope. Everything happens for a reason, there are seven billion people in the world. Theres probably somebody else out there for you.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. - Robert Frost